Telling a little white lie, sometimes you don't want to tell the truth but you don't want to completely lie. Thus telling a little white lie means that you are not giving the absolute truth.
Task 1
There is a girl/boy who is in love with you but you don't love him/her so you have to tell him/her the truth. But the truth is going to devastate him/her and break their heart so you have to tell them without hurting their feelings.
Examples to tell him/ her you don't want to date him/ her but in a nice way.
I don't want to destroy our friendship.
Your a nice guy/ girl but I will only hurt you.
If I have a girl/boyfriend then I cannot be an individual.
I need to focus on my studies so I cannot have a boy/ girlfriend.
I just recently broke up with my current boy/ girlfriend.
It is against my religion to date someone who is not from the same religion.
My parents don't want me to date someone until I am older.
I'm gay.
In your group create your own reason to not date this person but it must be a very nice way to say it.
 
Task 2
You want to take a day off from work; "to pull a sickie" but the truth is to do something for yourself such as to go shopping. You have to make a convincing excuse so your boss will let you not come to work.
Examples of excuses to use.
I have a doctor's appointment.
I have to go to my grandmother's funeral.
My dog was hit by a car this morning so I have to take it to the vet.
I'm so sick that I can't leave the toilet.
In your group create an excuse to tell your boss why you can't come to work today.
 
Task 3
You are driving a car but have been stopped by a police car because you were driving a little too fast. The police officer asks you why you were driving too fast but the truth is that you were just impatient to drive at the legal speed limit.
Examples of excuse to use.
The speed meter is not working.
I'm late for an appointment.
My wife is having a baby.
I didn't realise I was going that fast.
In your group create an excuse to give the police officer why you were driving too fast.
 
Task 4
You owe your friend some money he/she is asking you to give the money back; you have the money but you want to buy some new shoes so you want to pay him/her some later time.
Examples of excuse to use.
I don't have the money right now but I will try to give it to you another time.
I haven't been paid yet.
I have to pay something that is really important.
Did you say this week I thought you said next week?
In your group create an excuse to tell the friend why you don't have the money to pay him/her.
 
Task 5
You have a son whose puppy was run over by a car, so badly that the puppy's body is all over the road. Your son is about five years old so the truth will shatter his heart into a million pieces.
Examples of excuse to use.
Your little puppy has run away.
He has gone to puppy heaven.
Your puppy has gone to help orphans.
Your puppy only lives for a very short time so I will buy you a new one.
In your group create a white lie so the child won't be so upset.

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